Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Brides.com Story: Children's Healthcare of Atlanta Foundation

A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

Instead of giving a favor that may end up in your friends home trash can, give a wedding favor that can help a child get the healthcare they need.

The Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta Foundation is a not-for-profit organization that works to enhance medical services, programs, and care for children whose families could not otherwise afford to pay.

The Foundation will provide you with post cards to give to your guests as they leave the event that say you have donated to the charity on their behalf.

If you are getting married later in life or find that you don’t really need any wedding gifts, the foundation also has a program that allows your guests to donate in lieu of buying you a present.

For more information on The Foundation and its programs call 404-785-GIVE or visit their website at www.choa.org

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - Atlanta Section



Brides.com Story: Frenchy's Chicken


A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

If you are from Houston, you have heard of Frenchy’s Chicken, but did you know that Frenchy’s now caters?

Frenchy’s is a Houston tradition with five area locations. The food is in the Southern-style of Creole cooking and has a full menu of sides to accompany the famous, spicy chicken.

It is one of Beyonce’s favorite places to eat when she comes back into her hometown.

Your favorite fast food joint is now offering catering that could be great for a casual reception. You can order as many thighs, wings, and legs as you want and load up on the sides. I suggest the gumbo, etouffee, collard greens, and pickled jalapeno peppers. Don’t forget the dessert! Frenchy’s is known for their Southern sweets like Bread Pudding, Peach Cobbler, and Sweet Potato Pie.

For more information on the catering at Frenchy’s call 2810-980-1180 or e-mail info@frenchyschicken.com

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - Houston Section

Brides.com Story: The World Peace Cafe


A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

Have your reception or rehearsal dinner in a location that has a beautiful event space and helps the local community!

The World Peace Café is owned by the Atlanta based Rameshori Buddhist Center. The proceeds from the Café go to providing the Atlanta area with meditation classes and workshops that reflect the Buddhist principles of kindness and respect.

The food at The World Peace Café is all vegetarian and all delicious! The chefs use locally grown produce and never use heat lamps or microwaves.

The serene environment, friendly staff, and unique food makes this a very special venue. The Café can accommodate anywhere from 24 to 60 people. The staff is willing to work with your budget and dietary needs to create a lovely event.

Start planning your event by contacting the Café at info@worldpeacecafeatlanta.com or 404-256-2100. The Café is located next to the Whole Foods at 220 Hammond Drive NE in Sandy Springs.  

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - Atlanta Section

Brides.com Story: Sticky Fingers Bakery

A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

Wedding cakes are known to be heavy and very rich, but at Sticky Fingers Bakery they make their cakes to be 100% vegan, which means they are much healthier and much lighter than your average cake.

In other words, the cakes at Sticky Fingers at dairy-free, egg-free, cholesterol-free, lower in saturated fats, AND they still taste good!

Kamber Sherrod, 202-375-3899 or weddings@StickyFingersBakery.com, is the Sticky Fingers in-house cake decorator. She will work with you to create the unique cake of your dreams.

Sticky Fingers is so well known that they will be creating the cake for the national celebration of Martin Luther King Day at The White House. Kamber says they have never done a politically themed wedding cake, but she is ready to try it! Personally, I think that is a great way to incorporate your hometown into your wedding.

Despite the bakeries fame, the cakes are very affordable with some starting as low as $4.75 a person. So if you want a wedding cake that is beautifully designed, delicious, and wont ruin your waistline go with the pros at Sticky Fingers Bakery.

Sticky Fingers is located in Washington DC at 1370 Park Road.

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - D.C. Section

Brides.com Story: The Willard InterContinental Washington

A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

In these tight economic times, going to an exotic location for your honeymoon may not fit into your budget. But did you know, you can stay close to home and still have a luxurious experience?

The Willard InterContinental Washington is a historic hotel located in the heart of Washington DC. Since its inception in 1850, it has combined heritage with modern luxury and continues to excel at doing so today.

The hotel has seven different kinds of suites, varying in sizes with some even including dining rooms, pantries, and kitchens! All rooms, regardless if they are a suite or not, have beautiful views of the Washington and Smithsonian Monuments.

Two blocks away you will find The White House, which makes a pretty sweet backdrop for a honeymoon picture. Most other museums and governmental buildings are also within walking distance and have interesting tours and visiting centers. The Theatre district is only a few more blocks and often plays touring Broadway shows; a great nighttime activity.

After spending the day getting to know your city a little better, comeback to the hotel for the Afternoon Tea that takes place in Peacock Alley. Tea is served seven days a week and includes maple pear scones, 5 unique types finger sandwiches, and an assortment of sweet pastries.

Inside the hotel is an Elizabeth Arden Red Door Spa where you can find our inner peace with a ‘Signature Stress Melter Massage’ or enjoy the experience with your loved one by getting a side-by-side ‘Romantic Retreat’ massage in the special couples suite.

Top your stay off with a meal in the famous Willard Room. The restaurant recently received the award of excellence from Wine Spectator and the chef was honored as a top local chef from DC Chefs Magazine. You can choose your own entrees or you can try one of the chef’s tasting menus. Don’t forget the wine!

Why go exotic and spend the money on transportation when you can stay local and have just as good, if not better, a time. The Willard InterContinental Hotel is at the height of luxury and a great place to spend your honeymoon with the person you love in the city you love.   

For more information on the hotel visit www.washington.intercontinental.com or call 202-628-9100.

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - D.C. Section

Brides.com Story: 30th Street Station


A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

The large pillars of the landmark 30th Street Station in Philadelphia have been the façade of the city’s main train station since 1933. Looking at the front of the station with its ornate columns, every Philadelphia resident would describe this place as wholly Philly.

When I first told my friend, a life-long cheese steak eater, that she could get married (or at least host a reception) at the famous SEPTA station, she started planning her own wedding centered around the 30th street locale.

How new and different to get married at a famous Philly meeting spot. If you are having a large wedding, try to rent the North Waiting Room which can comfortably accommodate anywhere from 100 to 600 guests with a dance floor and dinner tables. If you want to scale down the wedding or the price, look to the South Arcade, which can be partitioned to hold as many as 150 people.

Before you book make sure to ask about catering services and electronic hook-ups (for your DJ). For more information call (215) 349-3147.

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - Philly Section

Brides.com Story: Firefly Dance Studio


A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

Have you always dreamed of having your own special wedding moment? I have and what normally comes to mind is a spotlight dance to my very own wedding song. There is only one problem with that.

I can’t dance…like…at all.

That’s no problem for the Firefly studio in Atlanta. They specialize in teaching you and your partner or even your whole wedding party how to dance. They work with cultural dances and would love to include those moves in your choreography. Their teachers can give you basic lessons or choreograph a whole piece just for your special day.

Michelle, a dance teacher and the studio’s owner, said, “We really just want to teach couples enough so that they can dance after they’re married. We want to see people dance together for the rest of their lives!”

Don’t worry; they know how to work with couples new to dance. No need to be nervous! Firefly Studio has flexible scheduling with evening and weekend lessons available.

You can contact the Firefly Studio online at www.fireflystudiodance.com or on the phone at 404-377-4070.

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - Atlanta Section

Brides.com Story: Vosges Chocolate


A bridal blog written for www.brides.com:

Vosges is a Chicago born and breed, super chic chocolate shop known for delivering ‘haute chocolate’. The store has expanded nationwide since its opening but, the owner, Katrina, still hand picks every spice she uses to create Vosges’ gourmet truffles in her Chicago kitchen in the heart of downtown.

Vosges claim to fame is their use of interesting spices mixed with chocolate, to create not only a great flavor, but an interesting conversation piece as well. Some of the unique spices they use are wasabi, ancho chilies, paprika and curry powder. I know, it sounds crazy, but you have never tasted a great truffle until you have tasted Katrina’s.

In addition to awesome truffles, Vosges makes the cutest wedding favors. Including this little Asian takeout box that comes filled with exotic, traditional, or Aztec truffles. Visit the website to see what exactly makes up the fillings in all those categories.

Also, they have these super cute mini-cakes in chocolate (Gatsby), vanilla (Daisy), or red velvet. I think it is such a cute idea to have a mini-cake per person rather than a normal large cake that serves everyone. It is breaking some traditions, but it is also being totally unique.

To look at Vosges exotic truffles or, better yet, order some, go to www.vosgeschocolate.com.

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index/html - Chicago Section

Brides.com Story: Dinkel's Bakery


A bridal blog written for brides.com:

If you’re from Chicago, you’ve heard of Dinkel’s Bakery.

And even if you haven’t heard of it, you’ve definitely seen their giant neon sign sparkling the name of the shop at 3329 N. Lincoln Avenue. Their desserts have been pleasing windy city residents since 1922. Wow! That means that five generations of Chicago residents have purchased sweet treats (and possibly wedding cakes) from the same location. I, myself, had my 16th birthday cake made there and believe me it was delicious!

Whether you want your wedding cake to be whimsical, traditional or modern, Dinkel’s can make it a masterpiece. They have over 90 designs of wedding cakes to choose from or you can make an appointment with Irma Sosa, their resident designer, to talk about exactly what you want for your special day.

Dinkel’s offers free tastings of all their wedding cakes and filling samples. When you come in to taste they will even buy you a free cup of coffee to wash your palate between bites. Once you taste their cakes and see the designs they have done in the past, you will realize why they have been in business for 85 years!

You can contact them at www.dinkels.com or (773) 281-7300.

Published on: www.brides.com/blog/weddedbits/index.html - Chicago Section

Travel (PGW) Story: Chinatowns


A travel story, with a food focus, written for www.petergreenberg.com:

East Meets West: Night Market Style

The smell of barbecuing fatty pieces of pork and beef wafts in the wind. The fizzing sound of vegetables hitting the hot grease of a fryer is barely heard over the little children who scream with delight. The steaming bamboo baskets sitting on almost every stall invite you to taste the delicious bounty hiding just under their lid. There is a unique buzz in the air, a buzz that can only be found at a Chinese Night Market.

Today’s Chinese Night Market originated in the center of large Taiwanese cities like Taipei.  The idea for the market came about when people, mainly teens, would cluster on small streets and hangout until way after dark. Seeing this crowd as a moneymaking opportunity, stores began to stay open later. After word got out about the late hours of the stores, more patrons came to the nighttime dining and shopping area and vendors realized that this was a way to make lots of money. Voila, Night Market.

Today, many Taiwanese cities, and Asian cities in general, still host about multiple markets in each of its major cities.  The markets have a mixture of stalls and booths selling clothing, goods, electronics, xiaochi (snack food), and specialty drinks like bubble tea. The larger, better established markets take place in freestanding marketplaces while smaller ones happen on streets that are in normal use during the day.

But don’t worry! The joys of the night market aren’t just for Asia anymore; The United States and Canada are joining in on the fun. Cities with distinct Chinese populations are beginning to hold Night Markets as a way to further build community between the cities Chinatown’s and the surrounding areas or neighborhoods.

Currently, the largest Night Market in North America is in Richmond, British Columbia. The market boasts about 400 booths and is a spending-and-feasting extravaganza. Anything one could want is priced mostly between $5 and $25. From Pet fashion to cell phone accessories, jewelry to precious glass teapots, and of course knock-offs of every designer, it’s all cheap and ready to be sold.

In Richmond, don’t be discouraged when the end of the shopping row comes, the main attraction is just ahead, the food court.

The name food court doesn’t even do this enormous hall justice; it is an international culinary tasting convention. Dim sum sits next to chicken curry puffs and fried oyster cakes. Try one of everything. To wash it down, find the recognizable bubble tea, a mixture of green tea, milk, flavoring and the tapioca balls, which are what make up the famous ‘bubbles’. When both shopping and eating become boring, the market also boasts carnival games and rides to keep the entire crowd entertained all night long.

Richmond’s market is known to have up to 30,000 customers on warm summer nights and the large amount of people only adds to the exciting ambiance. The night market is open 7pm until midnight every Friday and Saturday from late May until October 1st.

Only a half an hour away from Richmond, Vancouver also puts on a large night market in its Chinatown. The Vancouver market is known for its traditional Asian handicrafts that are sold along side the regular snacks and consumer goods. On Friday, Saturday, and Sunday nights, from late May to Late September, between the hours of 6 pm and 11 pm, the market opens to a healthy crowd of mostly tourists, but with some locals sprinkled in.

An additional two-hour drive from there, Seattle holds an open-air night market in the heart of their Chinatown International District. The Night Market itself is a small scale Richmond market, but the must see event is the ‘Summer Festival’ weekend. This is the weekend when the night market goes 24-7 for the Pan-Asian American Street festival. This event has all the fun of a night market, but also includes children’s activities and family-fun events.

Further down the Pacific Coast, find San Francisco’s famous Portsmouth Square transformed into a market that’s likeness to Hong Kong’s is truly uncanny. This fair was originally created after the 1989 earthquake to help the dwindling economy. It succeeded and has been around ever since. The market is so popular during its run that sometimes the patrons can barely move. Locals and tourists alike gather for the great bargains and cultural performances like lion dancing, martial arts, and Chinese operas. This market runs from late July to late October every Friday and Saturday night.

Across the country, on the East Coast, there are less night markets happening. That said, a huge gathering that is definitely a staple of North American Night Markets happens in New York City. Chinatown in the big apple is really a daytime attraction with most shops closing down at around 8 pm. In the late summer months take the N,R,Q,W to Canal Street and see red and gold lined streets that are alive in the moonlight. NYC has a Night Market Fridays and Saturdays from 8 pm to midnight in August and sporadically through out September and October.

Enjoy the nightly fun even while abroad in non-Asian countries. The Night Market has taken off in many European and Pacific Island countries. Sydney has a huge market on the quaint Dixon Street every summer Friday between 6 pm – 11 pm.

The North American Night Market offers a great East-meets-West atmosphere that is both educational and entertaining. All ages, young and old, can enjoy the overwhelming presence of culture and excitement. Most importantly, a night of snacking this extreme has never been so much fun!

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Travel (PGW) Story: Chi-Town Eats

Another traveling foodie story I wrote for www.petergreenberg.com:

Chicago’s culinary concoctions are definitely a big part of the city’s charm and are not to be missed on a trip to the famous second city. Enjoy both high-class dining experiences and Midwestern, down-home cooking options in the same vacation by visiting some of the most delicious restaurants Chi-town has to offer. 

 

DAY ONE

 

LUNCH

 

Welcome your palette to Chicago in style! The front façade of Gino’s East of Chicago is adorned with spotlights made out of neon tubes lighting up the large letters of the Chicago spot. For loyalists to the ‘Chicago style’ of pizza this is the Mecca. Chicago style pizza is a deep-dish pie with lots of gooey cheese and fillings. The pizza is so thick it is eaten with a fork! Gino’s is known for its signature polenta crust, which is crispy and has a distinct bite. The cheese is an ultra creamy mozzarella with a zesty, spiced tomato sauce. The signature Chicago pie is extra cheese and sausage, try it if you want real Chi-town flavor. Pizza-haters have no fear, pies aren’t the only thing Gino’s sells. They are also known for their generously sized sandwiches and pasta dishes.

 

DINNER

 

After a casual lunch, go high class for dinner. My first recommendation is Tru, a new-wave French restaurant that mixes classic French cuisine with some modern techniques. The dinning room is very open with white walls covered in contemporary art pieces. Look through them to find an original Warhol! The servers set and remove plates in practiced unison. The food itself acts as little works of art. The caviar appetizer is served cascading down a small glass staircase. The must have entrée is the venison loin with creamed corn, a grit cake and served in it’s own venison jus. Know how much you want to spend before you go, because the food at Tru is prix fixe; $80 dollars for a three-course menu, $100 for a seven-course, and $135 for the chefs collection.

If French isn’t your taste, opt for something from the orient. Grab some sushi at sushi wabi in the Market District. The restaurant gives you the opposite feeling of Tru, the walls are dark and industrial, but still hip. From 7pm to 11pm the DJ spins thumping progressive jazz. Sushi wabi definitely has a club-like vibe, but it fits in with the fun and funky sushi rolls. They offer 25 colorful and elaborate creations with familiar rolls like the dragon or the spider and their own like the large tarantula, which is stuffed with two kinds of crab, avocado, veggies, and a special sauce. Wabi also is a great place to branch out from sushi. Their seared sea scallops paired with a tart apple plum puree is delicious and memorable.

 

DAY TWO

 

BREAKFAST

 

Start out your day with a Chicago standard, Walker Bros. Original Pancake House. The decorations are in the style of the 50’s with Tiffany stained-glass lamps and worn, wooden high-backed booths. The restaurant is known for their endless variety of pancakes. The Apple Dutch Baby is a must get. It is a fluffy pancake that rises in the oven and is covered with hot, juicy cinnamon apples. Besides carbs, they have great quiches and omelets, which are fluffy because they too are oven-baked.

 

LUNCH

 

After your large breakfast, have a slightly lighter lunch, but still experience a Chicago tradition. Visit Hot Doug’s for a Chicago style hot dog, which includes a poppy seed bun with mustard, bright green relish, onion, tomato wedges, a pickle spear, sport peppers, and a dash of celery salt, but NEVER ketchup. Besides having the traditional Chi-town dog, try their bratwurst or their celebrity dog of the week made out of such meats as venison, elk, or wild boar. Whatever you choose, get an order of fries cooked in duck-fat, adding an interesting flavor to the average fry. As far as the décor, the walls are covered in funny wiener paraphernalia.

 

DINNER

 

Chicago has a large Greek population and the neighborhood of ‘Greek Town’ is not to be missed. Santorini is less touristy and more elegant than it’s neighbor restaurants. The whitewashed walls are decorated with baskets and copper pans and a large fireplace invites warmth on a cold night. The cooks offer a tableside filleting that engages all five senses. Try to go on a Thursday or Sunday when the special is barbequed lamb so juicy it falls of the bone, served with delicious lemon potatoes, which adds acidity to the dish.

For a less exotic option try Joe’s Seafood. It is designed like a 1940’s old boy’s club, something that is still popular in Midwestern cities today. The large mirrors on the walls make the dining room look enormous. The fare is surf and turf and marked by the simple quality of the food’s preparation. The signature dish is the meaty stone crab claws, but any fish or steak dish will please the palette. Get at least one order of Jennie’s Potatoes which are super cheesy and crunchy on the top. For dessert try the key lime pie made perfectly tart and tangy.

 

LATE NIGHT FARE

 

Chicago has lots of interesting nighttime activities, like Broadway shows or sports games, no matter what the season. After a fun outing, you could work up an appetite. To feed that hunger go to Avec. The expansive wine list is a perfect nightcap. The décor is sleek, with bare cedar walls and a stainless steel bar. Guests sit at communal tables, so get ready to make new friends. The cuisine is Mediterranean. Most of the items are cooked in a wood-burning oven and served in cast-iron dishes. Try the crispy focaccia with taleggio cheese and truffle oil.

 

DAY THREE

 

BREAKFAST

 

After a good night sleep, gain energy with a morning meal at the Bongo Room. Enjoy a sugary breakfast with many interesting flavor combinations. Some pancake options include brown sugar-pecan with banana or ginger-walnut with warm maple cream. With all the sugar on the menu, the hash browns are surprising delicious served crunchy with lots of dill and no greasy aftertaste.

 

LUNCH

 

“Chesburger, Chesburger, Chesburger, No Fries, Chip!” That mantra, made famous by Saturday Night Live, came from the Chicago burger joint Billy Goat Tavern. Billy’s is located under the el line in a dingy, yet iconic location. The restaurant is also the origin of the famous ‘Cubs Curse’. When the original owner of the Tavern brought his goat to Wrigley Field, he was kicked out and cursed the Cubs to never win another world series, which hasn’t happened to date. No matter what you order, the cook will berate you into getting the ‘double cheez’, which actually is a good choice.

 

DINNER

 

Keeping with the American theme, try Alinea for an evening meal. To get to the dining room you have to travel down a narrow passageway and go through motion-detecting metal doors that let you know that your dining experience will be something different. The dishes are new American and served with creative silverware and even some with instructions. The chef is progressive in his flavors and presentations. For example, he puts a cinnamon stick on a hot rock as an accent to a bison steak with blueberries or caps a Maine lobster with an eggplant moose.

Go south of the border in style with a dinner at Topolobampo. This is Mexican food like you have never tasted. The menu was created by celebrity chef Rick Bayless. Every meal is made with the freshest ingredients and served by very knowledgeable waiters. The décor is sparse but colorful. Make sure to pair your meal with any of the options from the fantastic wine list or an interesting cocktail from the bar.

 

DESSERT

End your gastronomical trip to Chicago on a sweet note with a trip to Margie’s Candies. The restaurant has an ‘olde time parlor’ feel with the staff wearing bow ties and vests. Get the ice cream sundae, it is served in a seashell bowl and is as big as a your head. The caramel and hot fudge are homemade and served piping hot. Don’t forget to purchase some hand-dipped chocolates to enjoy when you’re back at home!

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Travel (PGW) Story: Eating in New York City

A traveling foodie story I wrote for www.petergreenberg.com:

In a city like New York, where there are at least 14,600 restaurants, finding the perfect meal(s) can be a daunting task. So check out this handy guide for some standout establishments that are well-worth your dining dollars:

DAY 1

 

Lunch

 

Starting on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, don’t miss Les Enfants Terribles. The cuisine is a fusion of three cultures—African, French and American. The interior has a warm atmosphere with an earthy décor. Exposed brick walls, worn wooden doors, and unobtrusive African music set the tone of an upscale Saharan café. But, be forewarned: The wait staff can be scatterbrained; just don’t be afraid to be a little aggressive. The food features lots of meat, but keeps most dishes light and fresh. Try the mango and shrimp salad or the steak frites dripping with au jus sauce made with Ivory Coast spices. Most lunch entrees are around $15. 37 Canal Street; www.lesenfantsterriblesnyc.com

 

Dinner

 

If you’re in the mood for Mexican, head to Mexicana Mama. Though chips and salsa are de rigueur in any Mexican joint, here the chips are seasoned with sea salt and served in a brown paper bag. The chunky salsa is fresh and homemade. The menu may seem limited, but anything you choose will be tasty and relatively cheap. Check out the Queso Flameado, which is Chihuahua cheese melted over chorizo and served with corn tortillas and guacamole. Not only is it a relatively obscure dish, but it’s smothered in cheese (so you know it will be fabulous!). The margaritas are strong, but at $12 for an undersized glass, don’t offer a lot of liquid bang for your buck. 47 E. 12th Street; (212) 924-4119

 

If Mexican isn’t your thing, try The Mermaid Inn, with locations in the East Village and Upper West Side. This seafood restaurant is the third property from Danny Abrams but even with its accolades is still unpretentious. The décor is nautical with a modern twist. The dining room is sleek with black tables, chairs, and waist coating and a hard wood floor. The framed harbor maps, charts, and sea-themed prints that line the interior are reminiscent of a New England oyster bar. The best items on the menu are the simple ones, so go with the raw bar or the grilled mahi-mahi. But if you’re feeling adventurous, let the chef do his thing. How about the catch of the day topped with grapefruit and cherry cabernet? 96 Second Avenue and 568 Amsterdam Avenue; www.themermaidnyc.com

 

DAY 2

 

Breakfast

Breakfast at Bubby’s is a tradition among New Yorkers with its huge portions and affordable prices (about $15 a plate). Watch out, because they get you on the drinks, coffee goes for $3 a mug and orange juice in a small glass is $5.  Bite into the delectably sweet home-baked French toast or sautéed banana walnut waffles. If you’re into savory breakfasts, this really isn’t the place, but give it a shot—you may leave Bubby’s a changed person. 120 Hudson Street; www.bubbys.com

 

Lunch

Its noon already! Burn off breakfast with a walk through Little Italy until you’re ready for lunch.  Do not be swayed by the dizzying number of Italian restaurants lining the streets; instead, head straight to Lombardi’s. The establishment claims to be the first pizzeria in America, opening its doors in 1905. The pizza is coal-fired and has a smoky, ultra-thin crust (Chicago-style fans need not apply.) If you’re a meat-lover, go for the meatball pizza, which is a far superior to the traditional pepperoni. 32 Spring Street; http://www.firstpizza.com

 

Dinner

When in New York, it’s well-worth it to splurge on at least one meal. Restaurant Daniel, part of the Chef Daniel Boulud family, offers fine French dining and features locally grown produce. At this Midtown East restaurant, a pre-fixe dinner costs about $100 per person … not including alcohol. (Tack on another $60 or so for wine pairing.) Definitely order a foie gras appetizer and the veal entrée, however they may be prepared that night. Any of the desserts will do, but you won’t regret stepping out of your comfort zone with something like the Raspberry Vacherin with Fromage Blanc. 60 East 65th Street; www.danielnyc.com

Another option is Calle Ocho, a local Cuban favorite on the Upper West Side. Don’t go expecting great conversation, as it will be drowned out by loud samba music. Latin-inspired drinks include homemade sangria, mojitos and caipirinhas, or you can go truly tropical with an array of daiquiris. A bowl of cool-yet-spicy ceviche is a must, with the classic paella to follow. End your bueno noche with a cocos—a coconut sorbet in a chocolate shell. 446 Columbus Avenue; http://www.calleochonyc.com

 

… And Beyond

This is New York, so chances are you’ll be craving a bite after your Broadway show or late-night shopping. The Spotted Pig in the West Village is located on a fairly quiet street, but is filled with locals snacking on towers of shoestring fries (get a whole bottle of ketchup) or slices of spiced ginger cake. 314 West 11th Street; www.thespottedpig.com

 

DAY 3

Breakfast

Fuel up for your last day at Norma’s, located inside Le Parker Meridian. Norma’s only serves breakfast and is no greasy diner. Elegant plates feature items like blueberry pancakes with Devonshire cream and foie gras brioche French toast. And, if you’ve a spare $1,000, order the world’s most expensive omelet, made with eggs, a lobster, and a whole lot of caviar. 118 West 57th Street; www.parkermeridien.com/eat1.php

 

Lunch

A trip to New York can’t be all about Manhattan. Take the train to Queens and for a glimpse of beautiful architecture and quaint vintage shops. Check out Sripraphai recently rated the number one Thai restaurant in New York by Zagat and, surprisingly, it’s still cheap. Inside, there are two levels of dining and a garden. Just remember that here, spicy really means spicy! 64 39th Avenue; (718) 899-9599

 

Dinner

After a light lunch, dinner is time to go for broke. Babbo, located in trendy Greenwich Village, is owned by Chef Mario Batali and is known for its A-list clientele and down-home Italian cuisine. A pasta dish with seafood is a must, but don’t forget the sides. The sides are uniquely done with simple ingredients and taste just as good as the entrees, order them all for the table and share. 110 Waverly Place; http://www.babbonyc.com

If you’d prefer some soul food, head up to Harlem for Amy Ruth’s. Your meal begins with free cornbread, which is best enjoyed when dipped in the house’s real honey. Don’t be afraid to ask for more! The fried chicken has a uniquely peppery flavor in its coating and is perfectly paired with lots of Tabasco.  No fear if you’re a vegetarian—side dishes abound and Amy Ruth’s is known for browned waffles garnished with thick syrup. 113 W 116th Street; www.amyruthsharlem.com


… And One for Good Measure

Got room for more? Of course! Chikalicious offers a pre-fixe menu that takes you through three sweet courses ending with petite fours. The place gets crowded, but sip on your dessert wine while you wait for your table. For $12 you will be very satisfied. 203 East 10th Street; www.chikalicious.com

Stuffed and happy, your three-day culinary journey is complete—but this is New York, which means that you’ve barely scratched the surface. Take a few weeks to drop those extra pounds and then come back for seconds! 

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Religion Story: The Kings College

Not Your Parent's Evangelical

Bryan Nance, a 22 year old Politics, Philosophy, and Economics (PPE) college student laughs and shows a group of his peers a text message from his roommate that says, “Just so you know, I want to drink tonight.” Bryan is sitting next to his girlfriend, Hannah Smith, also a PPE major but with a concentration in education. They hold hands and kiss gently on the lips, but the purity band, a ring that young Christians wear to symbolize sexual purity, on Bryan’s left hand ring finger says that they don’t do much more.  Bryan enjoys drinking, dancing, seeing any movie he wants and showing his girlfriend he loves her by hugging and kissing, all actions that are frowned upon by many evangelical churches. It’s Thursday night and he is planning on meeting his roommate and a bunch of other friends at the Brooklyn Brewery for some pints of the house brew.

Bryan doesn’t believe in the rules that his family and his old church imposed on him, but he does believe in the Christian religion and is currently learning how to combine his faith with his career in a way that will allow him to be a professional first and give him the ability to discuss his beliefs in an eloquent manner at The King’s College in New York City.

On any given day, among the thousands of people file that in and out of the Empire State Building are students with iPods pounding in their ears and a backpack full of homework and projects. The only difference between these students and most other college student’s is that one of the books in their backpack is the Bible and that they attend The King’s College, the only evangelical college in New York City.

The number of applications to most Christian colleges, like The King’s College, are rising exponentially. Since 1990 the applications to Christ-centered colleges have experienced a 70.6% growth, according to the Council for Christian Colleges and Universities and the applications for this year’s class is said to be the highest number ever received. On the other hand, the outlook for the amount of applications to fill the class of 2013 at most other non- Christian colleges is bleak and will most likely drop from the height of 3.3 million applicants in last year’s “echo boom,” according to this year’s edition of the US News College Report.

With the election of Obama over McCain, many political commentators are heralding in the death of the era of evangelical power. This is far from the truth at most Christian colleges, based on the number of young people who are applying to enter higher education institutions that have a Christian bent. The young people who are attending The King’s College say they are learning to combine their religion with their profession, the most popular one’s being business and political science, which around 60% of the students study. Students who do choose those paths go on to work at The White House, Goldman Sachs, and Fox News, to name only a few.

King’s College is an evangelical college, but unlike some other similar universities’, Patrick Henry College in Purcellville, Virginia or Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia, the students attending and the faculty teaching here are not so-called “legalists,” a term that refers to people who follow the rules set down by the mainstream evangelical Christian churches. At the school, this means that while they, as they often say, “believe in Jesus Christ as their lord and savior,” the school doesn’t have any rules to forbid students social actions or behaviors, as stated in the King’s Student Handbook.

“King’s has grown up past the rules of the Christian movement,” says Steven, a 20-year-old PPE student originally from Las Vegas, who likes to party, but not like the tourists that are known to visit his hometown, “Many of us grew up in legalist households, but here it is our choice to follow the rules we used to have or not. King’s says ‘You’re adults, now make your own decisions,’ but they also teach us in a biblical worldview so we look at the bible and make decisions that are in light of that and the honor code.”

The college representation concurs: “The honor code is the way that King’s College polices its student population and the ideal that its students strive to uphold,” said the director of residential life, Shawn Best. “The honor code is a proclamation that must be signed when every student first arrives at King’s,” located on the 15th floor and basement of the Empire State Building. “It says that as an enrolled student you promise to not lie, cheat, or steal or tolerate those who do.” Best added, “I often don’t even hear about issues going on in the dorms. Most of the time the students use the honor code to take care of problems by talking to each other and they solve it themselves.”

Being in the Empire State Building is not the only difference between King’s and most other Christian universities. King’s does not require students to sign a faith statement, although it does require that of the faculty. The Dean of Students, Eric Bennett, said that “King’s is a truly unique place because we resist the idea that spirituality can be regulated through laws. We are focused on big ideas and intend to have our students influence culture from outside the Christian bubble. We teach our students to be bilingual, to be a believer, but to speak to others without judgment.”

The King’s College currently has 258 enrolled students who come from all over the United States. Matt Fillingame, a 22-year-old married student and the current student body president, added that the academics of King’s were based on the model of the famous English institution, Oxford University. King’s offers only two degrees; one in Politics, Philosophy, and Economics and the other in Business Management. Both majors are built on a common core, which is a sequence of 20 courses that take place over four years. The degree has a strong theological component and is based on the idea that Christianity gives powerful insights into the questions of being a professional today and gives students the tools to prepare for debate in the working world. “Our ambition is to be Harvard but with a different worldview,” says Fillingame.

The college also based some of its social structures on that of the Ivies. Its house system comes from the system at Yale. When students enter The King’s College they are automatically entered into a house, which are named for famous Christian personalities like Margaret Thatcher, Ronald Regan, and C.S. Lewis. The students live either off campus in a personal apartment or in the college’s dorms, which are inside of two high rise apartment buildings, The Vogue or Herald Towers, located close to the Empire State Building.

Matt, a different married Business Management student, who is 22 years old and expecting a son with his wife of three months, believes that King’s will be the Christian Harvard and its alumni may even equal such schools, “Yale and Harvard were originally seminaries and they were taught with a biblical worldviews,” he said. “Without religion,” he adds, “things like Enron happened. Now colleges have begun to bring back a religious worldview through ethics classes.”

Zach Cochran, a 19-year-old student says the coursework at King’s is rigorous. He personally does about three hours of homework a day. He adds that normally each class at King’s requires students to read between one and six novels a semester. “This semester I have probably read eight books, though my friends and professors always encourage me to read more.”

The King’s college was founded in 1938 in Belmar, New Jersey and moved to Briarcliff Manor, New York in 1955. In 1990 King’s ran into financial difficulties and closed in 1994. J. Stanley Oakes led the effort to find capital to reopen the school. In 1999, the college gained the Northeastern Bible College in New Jersey and moved to open in the Empire State Building under the old name of The King’s College.

The college has many university clubs and organizations, such as BreadBreakers, a organization that puts groups of students together to hold potluck dinners, and The King’s Council, the governmental board of the students. The college also has opportunities for students to engage with the outside world through community service by working in the New York City area, professional societies in law and business, and a worship service called The Tent, which meets on Thursday evenings.

Not exactly like Harvard or Oxford, The Tent has on average about 70 people in attendance, which is quite a large number of the currently enrolled 258 students. The worship service is in the vein of a traditional evangelical service with music and lots of ‘God Talk’- using words like saved, Jesus, hell and heaven, but it is the students’ choice to do it that way. The service is led entirely by the students, with the main director being Bryan Nance from above, who also is a very experienced singer. Nance believes that the worship service is different from those of any other Christian universities because it is optional and it is every student’s choice to worship in their own way and to participate as much as they feel personally comfortable. He explains, “It’s not your usual worship service and its definitely not like how our parents used to worship.”

As the rock music is playing while the students’ stroll in, the difference in the way each student wishes to worship is evident. Some students close their eyes and sway to the music with their hands pointed upwards, while others sit in thoughtful prayer. One young man is folded over his own lap in intense personal conversation. The Dean of Students is standing in the back of the small basement location, which has been dressed up in white Christmas lights for mood lighting, and singing the hymns quietly to himself.

Kate McKinnis, a 21-year-old student, with bright red, curly hair that is reminiscence of the little orphan Annie, walks to the front of the room as the guest worship leader and heads up the next section of prayer. She seems very nervous and fidgets and stutters while she talks. She references a verse in the book of Matthew in which Jesus says, “All who are wary and tired, let me take your yoke upon me.” Then the entire room splits off into four small groups to do a prayer activity.

Kate leads one group in “laying down their burdens for God” or telling the rest of the small group what is personally bothering them. After which, the group will “love on that person and help connect them with god.” A female student of small stature with curly brown hair who wears a thick coat of make-up and blue eye shadow, also named Kate, tells the group not to worry about upsetting anyone else and encourages all to speak their minds without hesitation, “It’s King’s, be revolutionary.”

A tall, skinny boy decked out in complete hipster dress named Alexander goes first. “I have a terrible fear of letting others see my faults.”

Kate leaps across the circle that the group formed in a corner of the room and squats in front of Alex to stare him directly in the eyes. She states coldly, “God says you are well loved. Beloved lord make him a man of honor. Remember Alexander, those things don’t define you because you have been called a son in the eyes of the lord.”

The pattern of a student laying down their burden and Kate or anther student reassuring them that they are okay if they are with the lord continues until everyone has gone and almost everyone is in tears. The circle becomes 16 teenagers and twenty-somethings who are listening intently to each other’s problems and truly caring for one another by responding to the issues laid down by their fellow students, something that isn’t often as organized at other colleges and universities.

Bryan, a transfer student from Liberty University, says that King’s is training the next generation of Christian leaders, but with a different outlook. “Evangelicals have been around in some form for over 100 years. In that time the movement has gone from opposing to imposing. They used to want to get away from culture and then they wanted to change the culture by a kind of forced Christianity.”

He goes on, “King’s does look to change the institutions of the worlds, but through educating the future leaders. King’s is trying to prep us to support our ideas through a thoughtful conversation, to be eloquent in discussing our beliefs, and to have good beliefs. Along with great academics, of course.” In the end he adds, “The American Dream stops fulfilling quickly, but we have something else to fulfill us.”

The kids at The Tent quickly bounce back from their heavy prayer and talk about their plans for afterward. Fillingame says that “students, who are of age, usually go to The Playwrights Bar”, which is an old-time, wooden bar right near the Empire State Building.

Fillingame openly admits that when he was younger he “never liked Christians because they all just seemed disingenuous and fake. They were too concerned in being ‘evangelical’. But King’s isn’t a bible school, the people who come to King’s think the evangelical church has lost its way and they want to be the new kind of Christian that we think will lead the changes for tomorrow. The old idea of the world versus us shouldn’t be there anymore and King’s is looking to change that.”

King’s strives to be progressive in everything it does. Recently, the school hosted a debate that was open to community members who noticed signs in and around the Empire State Building between Christopher Hitchens, the famous atheist writer at Vanity Fair and Douglas Wilson, a Methodist pastor. Emma, a very outgoing student studying PPE, said, “We are constantly looking to hear others ideas and debate, because it only makes our faith stronger.” Most students said the debate ended up being very well attended and really caused those who could come to think about why they believe what they believe.

Fillingame hopes that public events like this will change people’s opinions about evangelicals and bring the serious academic qualities of King’s into the media. “We are not kids from Hicksville, USA. We are students who are studying politics or business and using our faith as a backdrop. We are striving to meet popular culture and to be able to discuss our ideals eloquently when we get there.”


Feministing.com Story: My Mema

The Perfect Funeral

My Grandmother’s favorite performer of all time was Tom Jones.

She, known to everyone as June Care, but to her grandchildren only as Mema, grew up in a small steel town outside of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. To her, the glitz, glam, and fake tan of Tom Jones was something she aspired to have.

Mema married Da, my Grandfather, when she was just 18. He was heading off to Korea and they tied the knot right before he shipped out. When he returned, he went to law school and moved her and the beginnings of their family to Lexington, Kentucky.

My grandmother lived the good live of a wife of a Southern lawyer. She had four children, lots of parties, and even more drinks and cigarettes. When she was in her early 30’s, she got the chance to go to Las Vegas and wear her only fur coat to see Tom Jones live, a story that was told every chance she got.

Mema was the family member I most identified with. She was loud and very opinionated. She smoked like a chimney and didn’t care what you or anyone else had to say about it. All of her grandchildren, and she had nine, were treated equally. She would measure out the money that she spent on gifts down to the penny. When I opened a present from Mema and Da it was not uncommon to find the random pack of hair ties or couple of jawbreakers; she was just making sure we were all even.

That said, Mema and I always had a special bond. I would often get in trouble with my aunts and uncles because I tried to have adult conversations with them when I was a little kid; I was a 20-year-old stuck in a 10-year-old’s body. When they scolded me and I felt rejected, Mema would have adult talks with me. She was open, honest, and never sugar coated anything.

Once, we had a discussion about death. She told me that when she died, she wanted us to have a small family get together and spread her ashes at the local cemetery. She didn’t want any fuss and certainly no minister, she hated the church.

When I first got the news that my Grandmother had passed, it was just after Thanksgiving last year. I was still in New York City and I had two finals left to go in fall semester. I didn’t cry, I just was too separated from the emotions being alone in the city, and I focused my energy on my finals.

I met my family in Kentucky for the funeral and found out, not surprisingly, my mother was planning everything. My mother is a businesswoman and everything she does feels like a marketing pitch or sales problem, this funeral was no exception.

My mother and I have often had arguments about the church. She started believing and attending in full force when I was in sixth grade and my sister was four. I think it was belated post-partum depression. My life went from no opinion about God to a very evangelical view of God and the life one is supposed to lead to receive his grace.

My mother announced to me that I was going to give a eulogy, representing the ‘grandchildren’, the next day at the funeral service. I spent the night writing a vividly depictive speech. I connected her good qualities to the items in her kitchen, because I had spent most of my time there as a child.

At the service, my mother was in full boss mode with a veil of grief. She made sure that the flowers from the important relatives were set around the room in just the right places and that everyone looked up to par for the arriving public.

She made all the grandchildren take a picture in front of the funeral home, which I still don’t understand. My grandmother’s funeral wasn’t a memory I wanted photographed.

Being the appointed representative of the grandchildren, I was made to stand and greet the guests next to my mother, aunts, uncle and grandfather. I was so busy, that I didn’t even notice my mother usher the minister to the front of the room to discuss the service details.

I was seated in front with the other eulogy representatives, one for the children and one for her brothers and sisters, on a small raised stage. The service began and the minister, who looked just like everyone else in his black garb, stood up and opened his bible. At that moment, I suddenly became 10 again, sitting in Mema’s kitchen while she explained to me the meaning of death and her perfect funeral.

This wasn’t supposed to happen. Why was there a minister? Of course, it was because of my mother. She was so selfish. Didn’t she know that not everyone believed in God or all her church stuff? I was so angry that I didn’t event hear the minister’s ‘sermon’. I was thrown back into the real world when he announced that I would be speaking next.

I walked up to the podium and began to deliver my speech. I looked straight down at my paper because I couldn’t bear to look at my mother. I started to cry so hard that my body shook. It was because I was finally allowing myself to grieve, but also because of the intense anger I felt for my mom. I got through the entire eulogy and looked up at the crowd of gathered relatives and friends, apparently I had moved others to tears too. I looked at my mother and hoped that she understood everything I wanted to say to her about how she had ruined my grandmother’s funeral and how she would have to live with that through my intense eye contact.

What I saw in her eyes was not the look of corporate power or control that she normally has, but one of extreme grief for the loss of her mother and pride for being my, the girl who delivered the moving eulogy’s, mother. My anger softened, but I continued to stare at her.

Before the representative of the children spoke, the minister thought it necessary to say a pray. I watched my mothers face. She was crying and wiping her eyes. When the prayer began she turned her face upward and through the minimal movements in the lines in her face, I saw her grief turn to hope.

I am not exactly sure what she was she was hoping for, maybe that her mother had made it to the kingdom of heaven or that she was happy.

I realized that my mother had hired the minister because she needed him to help her deal with the death of her mother. While I still wanted to respect the wishes of my grandmother, I knew that she was gone and wasn’t experiencing this funeral, but my mother was.

The funeral was for the living people present in the group of mourners. It was to help them understand the death of the Care family matriarch.

As my uncle began to eulogize, I realized that my grandmother would have been okay with this minister, because more important than the perfect funeral was the safety and happiness of her family.

I stood up and walked off the stage and sat next to my mother. I grabbed her hand and held it tight while we both cried. This time when I looked into her eyes all I saw was love for me and for my Mema.

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Livewire.com Story: Alternative Ministries

Jesus And A Brew

On Sunday afternoon, Pete's Candy Store, a well known Brooklyn bar and music venue is filled with people. However, these people, mostly in their 20s, are not there to drink or watch the game on one of the bars many flat screen TV’s, they are there to worship.

Sitting on the small stage at the back of the bar is Jay Bakker. He is wearing tight, dark jeans and a leather jacket that covers most of his multiple tattoos. When he starts the service, his silver lip ring catches the light and creates a bouncing pattern on the ceiling. The audience of young people seem comfortable praying to, talking about, and, said one worshipper, “just being in the presence of the Lord” with Bakker leading them.

Evangelical leaders of today have full megachurches and lots of political power, but despite that, the leaders claim they are seeing their many of their teenagers abandon the faith, as said in the talking points of a series of unprecedented meetings this fall. In 44 cities more than 6,000 pastors met and discussed the forecasts for the religion, claiming that if the trend of teens leaving the faith continues, only four percent of teenagers currently involved in the religion will be ‘Bible-believing Christians’ at adulthood, compared to the 35 percent of teens who stayed with the religion in the baby boomers generation. 

The young people in question are defecting to alternative ministries, like Bakker’s, that meet in bars, basements, or clubs to discuss God on their own terms. They pray and debate the Bible while criticizing large churches and bringing the famous pastors down from their hero status.  Bakker’s church, the Revolution Ministries, is the biggest and most recognizable in this new trend of evangelical Christianity. The Revolution Ministries currently has congregations in Atlanta, New York City, and Charlotte, but the management is working on expanding to even more locations.

The Revolution Ministries is not only recognizable because of its large congregation, but also because Bakker is the son of famous Tammy-Faye and Jim Bakker, the televangelist hosts of the popular, late 80’s, early 90’s cable show, The PTL Club. Bakker’s full name is Jamie Charles Bakker and he just turned 32. He can still vividly remember his life before his parents fell from grace. “I remember when I would be on the show I would have to wear a suit and have my hair gelled down to my head. Right before I would go on, I would grab my G.I. Joes and put them in my pocket.” Jamie sites that his best friends during that time were his security guards. 

At Pete’s Candy Store, there are no guards or cameras and the average age of the worshippers is 25. The dress is jeans and tees with hipster and bohemian fashions being the norm. Bakker dresses in a white undershirt and a silver necklace that bears the symbols of many different religions. He speaks with a slight Southern drawl and drinks iced tea, he has been sober for 14 years, while discussing his ministry. Bakker believes that young people attend his ministry because he allows for all people to come as they are, in both dress and ideas on religion. “At Revolution there is more room for progressive thought on Christianity. We don’t try to live up to the standards of mainline Christian society and we don’t believe that we are holier or better then other people.” 

Bakker also believes that message behind the black and white aspects of salvation that his parents preached are flawed. “I was raised with the belief that you could do good or you could do bad. If you did everything you were supposed to do, you were guaranteed salvation, but if you didn’t, it was easy to backslide away from salvation.” Now Bakker believes that you are accepted through God’s grace just the way you are, despite your past or your present. To Bakker there are no rules to salvation besides accepting Jesus into your heart.

A worshipper named Christie Lee, 29, a Brooklyn social worker, becomes teary eyed when she discusses her religion. She said attends Revolution because it is a way to stay connected with the faith, but not have to believe in the tenets that the popular churches preach. “I didn’t want to throw the baby out with the bathwater. I was born into a Christian family, but I don’t connect with many of the beliefs of the church today. I still believe in god though and that’s why I come here,” said Lee. Lee has been a member of the church for about two years and finds the method of preaching in this ministry special. “Revolution is living what it is preaching. They are going to people where they are. Meeting in a place like Pete's Candy Store makes people our age more comfortable talking about religion.”

Revolution not only has a young congregation, but also attracts a lot of new members without having to proselytize like the mainstream churches do. Sonja, 20, a student in Manhattan, was raised in a Catholic household in upstate New York and stopped in to check out the service. “Religion is complicated for me and I am just trying to figure it out. Revolution is great because I don’t feel tied down to anything.”

The store’s phone rings as the sermon is wrapping up and the bartender takes a break from his dominoes game to answer it. The bar is open during the service, but the worshippers stay focused on the preacher and the few customers who are there to drink stay respectful and quiet. While talking to the caller, the bartender ironically picks up the large bottle of Frangelico and pours himself a glass. The room listens intently as Vince Anderson, the assistant pastor of Revolution NYC, talks about exclusion being the dirty little secret of Christianity. “It is human nature to want to exclude others and have a private, little club. But Christianity is not a club. Since 9-11 Christianity has not included others and where has it gotten us? Only bad places.”

After the service Anderson grabs a light beer and explains his opinion on how the mainstream church could bring young people back. “Radical inclusion,” he says, “because if you continue this theology of exclusion soon you will exclude everybody. The turning point of Christianity is accepting the LGBT community, drugies, and un-wed mothers, but they haven’t gotten there yet.”  Revolution believes strongly in inclusion and strives to accept anyone, including the three minorities Vince mentioned, no matter his or her past or present states.

Bakker agrees that in order to keep its teenagers the church must start to accept previously exiled communities, but he adds that they need to stop relying on tradition and just rely on the word of God. He believes that the theme parks, purity rings, and speaking in tongues are all just misguided zeal found in passing on traditions. “Megachurches just need to be transparent and put all their beliefs out on the table for discussion instead of just imposing them on people.” He also mentions off-hand that the followers in the megachurches should read their bibles instead of just believing what their pastor tells them is in it. He jokes, “It’s the greatest story never told.”

The crowd of young worshippers stay and hangout in the bar after the hour of prayer is over. Bakker collects his bible and notebooks before bundling up in a tight leather jacket against the autumn wind and Vince sighs and hopes that the mainstream church will see that acceptance is the way to keep young people interested in God. “Times are changing and hopefully they will see that. I really hope that Christians will be the people to lead the change for justice and not the ones to wait to react to it.”

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Feministing.com Story: New Abortion Book

A Time For Evolution

Feminists in the media are often portrayed as Birkenstock wearing, dread having, vegans, who hate all things religion and who will do anything, literally anything, for their cause.

A life-long abortion activist and founding member of the third-wave feminist movement, Jennifer Baumgardner should fit the stereotype, but walking into Joe’s Coffee, a chic West Village java joint, she just doesn’t.

Wearing a trendy black dress that fits loosely on her small frame, her strikingly blonde hair and fair skin pop. She types away furiously on her Blackberry, responding to e-mails and finding a table while answering a question, “I went to church my whole life and I still believe in God, I just believe that God wants me to have choices.”

Besides running her own business, Soapbox, Inc., a booking agency for feminist speakers, Baumgardner is also a journalist, teacher, author and mother of a 4-year old son. She has written for Glamour, The Nation and Harpers. In total, she has penned 4 books.

Her just-released paperback, Abortion & Life, hit shelves this fall. It has three-parts, with sections being on the history of abortion, the true stories of women and their experiences with the process, and a call to action for young activists to protect the right to choose. The book is scorchingly hot in this election season with the media attention that has been focused on women’s issues.

“The possibility of a Republican president being able to choose a new justice would be horrible for the laws concerning women's health and the distribution of money for sexual education,” said Baumgardner. If that did happen as a result of this election Jennifer believes that her work, her fellow feminist causes, and women’s lives in general would be changed. 

Baumgardner was born in the Midwestern town of Fargo, North Dakota. Her family was very liberal, but her mother always had a strong connection to the Lutheran faith, as a result the family attended church regularly, she noted. That understood, Jennifer says she always had her own opinions on national issues and "was politically intuitive from a very young age." 

Many political topics were discussed openly when she was little, especially abortion. “One day, when I was fairly young, my mother’s friend graphically described to me the process of receiving an abortion and, to my surprise, it didn’t really gross me out.”

Soon after hearing that and being oddly interested, Baumgardner got first hand experience dealing with abortion.

“When I was 13 and my sister was 15 we went on a church trip to Europe. On the trip there was a really cool, long-haired boy who my sister thought was cute. She lied about being on the pill so that he would have sex with her and he did. She found out she was pregnant and finally told me after a trip to the lake when I noticed that she was watering skiing and obviously wiping out. I learned later that was her attempt to harm the fetus”

Baumgardner wasn’t scared or shocked by the news. “I basically felt major excitement because it was something that was a big secret and she had chosen me to help.”

Because of when her sister found out and when she finally told Jennifer, they only had a week to raise the money for the procedure. Jennifer was able to procure the money from a protestant friend and delivered it to the clinic at just the right time.

Protestant’s have not only provided for Baumgardner’s sister’s abortion, but they have been the subject of her writing many times before and her new tome is no different. The idea for Abortion & Life, came about when Jennifer realized that the newest wave of abortion-rights advocates didn’t always know the entire history of the movement. She wrote the first section in a textbook manner to describe, through detailed facts, the pro-choice movement up until today.

The second section is the part of the book that connects the ideals to the real world. It tells the real abortion stories of Gloria Steinem, Ani DiFranco, and other women.

The last part of the book connects to the general message of empowering the new wave of abortion-rights advocates delivered in the first section. It is a call to action that warns the younger generation the decision of Roe V. Wade is in danger of being over-turned or under-written.

“Roe was a landmark decision, but it can’t be the end of our activism on abortion. The past 20 years, Roe has been undermined continuously by the current administration and it needs to evolve.”

The response to Baumgardner’s book as been mixed. The pro-choice world has been very positive in their response. Author Barbara Ehrenreich said that Jennifer is  “smart, fearless, and a formidable force for change.” Members of the religious world didn’t look on the book as fondly. A visitor to a Barnes and Noble discussion on Jennifer’s book said that he “felt the presence of the devil in the room” when she spoke.

A year ago, she wrote another piece about evangelicals for Glamour centered on ‘Purity Balls’ and the growing chastity chic movement. She infiltrated the Wilson family Father-Daughter Purity Ball, the first and largest ball for sexual purity in the United States. She found out the ritual behind the father becoming the guardian for his daughter’s purity and became understanding to a point. “I find that the issue is good, a father’s desire to keep his girl free of predators that undermine their dignity, but I don’t like the strategy.”

Jennifer’s ability to understand the evangelical view on the issue of purity and its nuances and choose to agree on some points is exemplary of the movement in the pro-choice world toward finding some common ground with the right.

When she was in college Jennifer says her opinions were knee jerk because feminism was and had always been defined in absolutes. Now that women’s issues have become multifaceted because of a greater public education on each topic, the world of feminism is grey and its leader’s opinions have become more nuanced, she says.

Like her ability to find the ‘grey’ in the opinions of the right, she has equally mixed opinions about the current election.

“While I don’t want McCain to be president and I disagree with Palin on many issues, I am glad that a woman who wasn’t upper class is able to have the opportunity to run for vice-president. I think it says a lot about our culture and our country. I also think it is important that she is supporting her pregnant daughter out in the open and that nothing is backroom anymore.”

Jennifer hopes her book will allow people to be able to speak more freely about abortion. “This book can and should act as a conversation starter. It lets people know you are a safe person to talk to about personal issues and hopefully it will start the discussion of equality of women for the world.”

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Religion Story: The Gate Mtg. @ Times Sq. Church

Saved And The City

In Times Square in Manhattan, many people spend Friday nights eating at a restaurant or taking in a Broadway show, but about 400 people go to ‘The Gate’ youth group meetings at the Times Square Church, New York City’s only evangelical megachurch, to spend the evening praising their lord. The crowd becomes so large that there are ushers to help latecomers find an empty seat.

The Gate, organizers say, is a gathering of anyone “who wants to proclaim his or her love to God.” It is a mass coming together of people from different ethnic groups, classes, ages, and abilities. Some have come from school in jeans, while others have dropped in after a days work. A carrier of a Louis Vuitton Briefcase sits comfortably next to a shopper holding a Kmart bag.

The Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life recently found that while a majority of young white evangelicals describe themselves as conservative on social issues, this year slightly more identified as either independents or Democrats than as Republicans. “Young born-again Christians stand on one of the many generational breaks surfacing in this election cycle,” said Washington Post reporter Krisssah Thompson. “Young evangelicals are just the voters being targeted by Sen. Barack Obama and the ones that Sen. John McCain cannot afford to lose.” Attending an evangelical meeting like ‘The Gate’ can help to understand the motivations behind these young voters as before they head to the polls.

The pioneering Pastor David Wilkerson, best selling author and major voice in the world evangelicals, founded the Times Square Church in 1987. According to the church’s website, David was the preacher for a small town in rural Pennsylvania until he saw a photograph of a hearing for seven teenage boys who were on trial for murder. The face of one of the teenagers was so distressed and his eyes were so full of sadness that in 1958, Wilkerson followed instructions from the Holy Ghost and went to New York to help the youth of the city with a street ministry. In 1986, after seeing the prostitution and drugs on the streets of Times Square, the church fund’s bought the famous Mark Hellinger Theatre on Broadway, where the church has resided ever since. 

In the orchestra section, the immaculate carvings in the pillars framing the stage glitter. The paintings on the ceiling reflect an un-holy era of Victorian decadence: four women in different states of undress; cherubs perched naked in ornate frames.

The air is filled with loud drumbeats, guitar riffs, and the voices of the choir. The chorus wears bright t-shirts with ‘The Gate’ logo in graffiti. The words in the song seem to force energy out of people through dancing or intense personal reflections.

A quiet goes over the crowd when the Pastor Patrick Pierre, the associate pastor of Strictly Youth, the young adult and high school aged group in the congregation, asks the crowd to pray. While he begins to speak, a loud whisper rises from the crowd. Each person in the audience is praying quietly to themselves while the pastor prays above. Pastor Pierre started ‘The Gate’ three years ago and the attendance has been steadily rising since.

“The people who don’t believe in you, we ask you take the scales off their eyes. Lord, we pray for an outbreak of prayer in schools so that it spills out onto the streets,” he said making a quiet reference to having prayer in schools, a McCain position. A worshipper in the crowd, Andrea, is painfully squeezing her face together and holding her palms up, as if she is waiting for the answer to her questions to drop into her hands.

The Pastor introduces a dramatic skit about the labels people put on others and the fact that people come to believe in them. He promises Christ’s love will free the believer of any labels. “There is a heaviness that we are walking around with that doesn’t belong to us, because there is a freedom in Christ.”

In an interview after the performance, one of the people involved in the skit, Pablo, describes how he was saved. “The moment I was saved I asked God, if what you are saying, if what the Pastor is saying is true, I want it. I need you.” He goes on, “I thought I was a homosexual before I was saved, but god told me that it wasn’t the way he planned me to be.”

When asked to describe God, Pablo becomes teary eyed, “God is the most amazing person I have ever met” His friend beside him, Natasha, adds, “Gods means love, a fatherly love, you cant get anywhere else”.

Her sister, Latoya, interjects “God is the savior of my soul and the creator of all.”

Pastor Pierre begins his sermon, “The devil will assimilate people, he will use all sorts of things, including the media, to lead you astray. The slogans of today seem innocent but they are about doing what you want, living the way you want, following your heart. But god says that the heart is deceptively wicked.”

He then told a story of his purchase of some very expensive electronics. He brought them home and his wife was interestingly quiet about the purchases. Later on that night God spoke to him and asked him if that was what he wanted from his hard work. He asked his wife why she didn’t say anything and she said, because he could not hear her.

“If you go astray, you will lead others astray and you will frequent unsaved places run by unsaved people,” he said. He ends by begging God to “save our unsaved lawyers, co-workers, and classmates.”

Dean, a worshipper, said he tries to hear Gods voice in the bible. “Some days, I fast for 12 hours and pray for God to tell me the meaning of a passage. I read my bible and the spirit comes and remains in me.” Tim, sitting behind me says, “I live to hear him, I am always listening.”

The Gate meetings are every Friday and are “more popular then ever because of the light that the election has brought to the evangelical faith and morals,” said Pablo. He added that everyone is welcome to attend The Gate because, “God is a friend of sinners and when you experience him, you will never be the same, you will be free.”